It will give your kids time to adjust to him, and he can really get to know you as their mother. If your kids have said "Get a room", you know you've taken it too far.
This can be hard to swallow if you want to be their number one.
Hopefully any difficult feelings will pass but if they don’t you may have to reconsider whether this is the right relationship for you.
Be yourself However it came to be the children will have been affected by the loss of their other parent and may not your welcome your presence into their lives.
The most important thing to remember is that the free time a single parent has is limited and it may not always be easy for them to get to see you.
If you are understanding and accepting of this right from the start it will make it much easier – texting, phone calls, Skype, instant messaging and email are good ways of keeping in touch even when you can’t actually be together.